Deborah Tannen best Communication Quotes – “The Pavlovian view of women voters – ‘plug the words in, and they will respond’ – sends a chill down my spine because it sounds like an adaptation of something I have written about communication between the sexes: When a woman tells a man about a problem, she doesn’t want him to fix it; she just wants him to listen and let her know he understands.”
Deborah Tannen best Anger Quotes – “When daughters react with annoyance or even anger at the smallest, seemingly innocent remarks, mothers get the feeling that talking to their daughters can be like walking on eggshells: they have to watch every word.”
Deborah Tannen best Anger Quotes – “Conversations with sisters can spark extremes of anger or extremes of love. Everything said between sisters carries meaning not only from what was just said but from all the conversations that came before – and ‘before’ can span a lifetime. The layers of meaning combine profound connection with equally profound competition.”
Deborah Tannen best Alone Quotes – “Communication is a continual balancing act, juggling the conflicting needs for intimacy and independence. To survive in the world, we have to act in concert with others, but to survive as ourselves, rather than simply as cogs in a wheel, we have to act alone.”